If the profile and photos of a woman caught your attention on our Russian dating service and you want to meet her and grab her attention, this article will help you:
1. Write her a letter first
Why first?
Because in the upbringing of Ukrainian women, there is the belief that a man must be the first to take the initiative in a meeting. This is taught from childhood, and it has historical roots. In the past, a man assumed the responsibility of taking care of his wife and children, so he was given the privilege of choosing a woman.
Today, times have changed, and “love loves equality,” but the outdated belief that a man must be the first to take the initiative in a meeting is deeply ingrained in the minds of 90% of Ukrainian women. In most books written for women, it says that you should not take the initiative in a meeting. You must wait for the man to show interest in you. This is because his initiative will be seen as an imposition if he is not interested in you. So, the woman remains seated, proud and unattainable, waiting for a serious relationship. Why are women so afraid to write first? They feel that if a man doesn’t respond to their message, their self-esteem decreases and, consequently, their desire to get to know him and take the initiative fades.
2. Don’t be afraid of rejection
In any case, it is better to meet someone and explore the reasons why other relationships may be possible, rather than suffering from doubts.
Psychologists say about online dating: the more acquaintances you have, the more chances you have to meet your soulmate. Even if it doesn’t work with some women, you will have new enriching experiences with the opposite sex.
3. Show your interest and be attentive
Ask your beloved questions during your communication. Ask about her childhood, habits, family, hobbies, life plans, and preferences. The girl should feel all your attention and great interest.
Try not to be annoying. If the lady does not answer some questions, switch to another topic.
Also talk about yourself, your successes, and your plans. Be confident. Women love confident men who are successful, independent, and know how to achieve their goals.
4. Be honest
You can directly tell her that you like her and that you would like to know more about her.
5. Start by complimenting her. Give her a compliment
Ukrainian women love compliments. In Eastern Europe, they say “women love with their ears.” A compliment is a gift in words. Compliments add a special flavor of warmth, trust, and understanding to communication. Just as a flower blooms in the rays of the sun, a woman blooms in the rays of a compliment. A compliment gives her a bit of your cordiality and charm.
A compliment is also a psychological tool and provides information about your perception of a woman:
It shows your vision, your point of view, and your priorities in the image of a woman.
Admire her appearance, her figure, her character traits… Compliments are pleasant in all areas. They only need to be sincere and reach the lady with authenticity. A real compliment touches the heart. The path to a woman’s heart is through attention, care, affection, and warm and tender words.
A compliment is already a sign of attention, words of admiration that can work wonders.
